Tuesday Training Byte: Attitude matters

My father served in WWII and I served as a police officer. That being said, when I first started training dogs it should be no surprise that I took commanding, stern approach. The "old school" way of dog training was harsh and dominating. Some dogs did fine under this method, but others could really flourish with training that was done in an upbeat attitude. The old way can be described like the way you felt if your dad yelled at you (usually using your full name) to "get right over here- NOW!" Did you joyfully rush to see your dad or feel like hiding? Do you like to be around demanding people? If we are punitive with our dogs, they may be fearful and cannot learn when they are afraid. Further, they will ignore their owner's commands. The only time I use a loud and harsh command is when two dogs are lunging at each other, I jump between and block the attack while commanding, "Stop it!" The dogs sense my attitude now is very serious and that I am the one in charge, but this happens on such a rare occasion. Using an upbeat attitude results in a happy, willing partner in your dog. On a summer day, ask your kids, "Who wants ice scream?!" and everyone is excited. Speak to your dog in a happy tone and they will respond more quickly and eagerly. No more being the drill sergeant dog parent. If you are not in a good mood or frustrated, that is not the time to train. Attitude matters. Happy training!